Hurt and confusion have been your closest companions ever since your partner walked out on you. You are broken hearted and it seems to be the most painful experience you ever had to deal with in your life. You are screaming at the top of your lungs: "I miss my ex!", but no solutions can be found if you just spend your time feeling sorry for yourself. Here are some great ideas on taking the best course of action.

How's Your Ex?

Before getting involved in another hurtful episode with your ex, take a peek at their current situation. Is your ex still single? It may be that they are not over you just yet, and that is why they postpone the moment of starting to date a new person. Is your ex with someone else? Even if this may seem a clear sign that they no longer care about you, pay a little more attention to details. If your ex just keeps changing partners, it may be that they just want to make you jealous and test your reactions, especially since they seem to be bent of introducing their new flings to you, each time you happen to be around.

Who Knows I Miss My Ex?

This is a very important question, and one that you can answer yourself. If you want your ex to know that you still miss them, but you do not want to take any chances by telling them straight, use your mutual friends as information carriers. It is enough to mention how you feel about your ex partner in a circle of friends that you know will spread the word. Mission accomplished!

Check Them Out

You cannot truly say that your ex no longer cares about you, until you listen to what they have to say. If they just keep apologizing for what went wrong between you and them, and they act nervously when you are around, it's clear as daylight that they still have feelings for you. Now, it is up to you to let them come to you on their own pace, without scaring them by being too pushy.