We all wonder what completes a family. If every situation is unique it will be impossible to state a universal answer to this question. However, if life has taught me nothing else is differently taught me the pure joy of a new addition to the family. Children are the markings of new beginnings and they remind us of what true innocence feels like. The miracle infertility cure book by Lisa Olson has made a difference in many lives.

When looking to get pregnant aren't just anxious to hold a new baby in their arms, they want to be a part of creating a new beginning. I think of the desire to bring a child into the world is beautiful but it has to be for all the right reasons. Some people fail to realize that although children bring immense joy into our lives they require much more than they can give us. It's not fair to bring a child into this world with the only purpose being to enrich your life, as the life of a child serves a much greater purpose.

A child is a blessing only God can give but many people forget that when facing this battle, it isn't your fight to begin with so you most definitely don't have to face it alone. The most honest advice I can give to women looking to get pregnant to truly search within yourself and look to God for the guidance that only He can give you. There is something wrong when no matter what you gain or who you have in your life, you are still constantly searching for that one thing that is missing. There's nothing worse than a child trying to raise a child... Age is not what determines maturity but spiritual growth is was really makes that decision.

I'm not afraid to be alone but I am terrified at just the thought of living without God. When life has dealt me a losing hand in the world around me appears to be falling a part, God is the foundation that I have to stand on. With that being said infertility is definitely a spiritual issue as God is only one who can give life and take it away. It's hard dealing with having problems getting pregnant.

The family truly becomes whole when to committed people bring a life into this world, but as we know there will be unexpected events that occur throughout life. And sometimes unexpected pregnancies complicates things for people who aren't prepared to have children, but as adults it is our responsibility to make the best of every situation and provide adequate care for our children.