Divorce is for the most part very stressful and traumatic.
Given this kind of environment it is extremely easy to not do what is in your best interest and to leave yourself exposed to legal action down the road.
This is one situation facing quite a number of people.
If you have been through a divorce and have unfortunately ended up with arrangements that are not in your best interest or are not fair to you and you feel you could have done a better job, then maybe your story can help others in avoiding the pitfalls you now face.
You are equipped to give real advice from the perspective of someone who have been through the process and probably did not handle it with the level of care or even attention that you should have.
You have or are now experiencing the consequences of this and there is no better person to give advice to others along this line about avoiding these pitfalls.
Do not think for a moment that you have nothing to offer to others who are going through some of the difficulties you faced during your divorce proceedings, and some of the mistakes you made.
You do have a lot to offer and you have a great foundation to tell your story from.
How do you go about telling your divorce story? A blog is a great place to start - write a series of articles and maybe one day you could even end up with a book that thousands of others will want to read.
Your guidance and insight will be extremely beneficial to others.
You will have to be prepared to be very open about what you share, while of course taking steps to protect any other party.
You could for clarity sake, state where you messed up, how it happened, what were your feelings that probably led to you messing up and the consequences for you now.
Then you can give suggestions on how to do it differently or if you are still not sure, honestly say so.
This way your readers will know how much other help they will need outside of your own advice about their own situation.
Divorce is extremely difficult to deal with.
There are crucial decisions to be made that may affect your life and the life of others for years down the road.
But at the same time, it is an extremely stressful time.
Any support for those going through this very difficult process is invaluable.
So do not think that your experiences are limited to you and would not do any good to others.
In this regard you would be very wrong.
Sharing your story would be a great way to reach out and help others.
So get started writing your story about your messed-up divorce.
You may have messed up your divorce but by using this same experience, you can offer a lot of help to others.
So start writing that blog.