OK, you've had a break up with your girlfriend, and...
to cut a long story short...
you want to get back together! You need the answer to that all important question,  "How can I get back together with my ex girlfriend?" Well, today you're in the right place...
at the right time! Sorry if that sounds a bit corny, but it happens to be true! You see I've worked with so many people who have had a break up and I've helped them to either sort out their differences and create a stronger, loving relationship or to move on, because that's what they both really want.
Now, if you want to get back together with your ex girlfriend, there are a few steps you'll need to take.
In this article, I'm going to give you an outline plan that'll help you get through the process with great success.
Firstly, in most relationship break ups, people get a second chance.
So it's not impossible for you to get back together with your ex girlfriend.
But before you leap in and start trying to get her back, I suggest you sit down with a pen and paper and do some soul-searching...
Write down your answers to these questions...

1. Do you still love your ex?
2. Do you really want her back?
3. Why?
4. Are you trying to get your girlfriend back because you don't want to be alone?
5. Do you believe you shouldn't have been dumped?

To put it bluntly, if you want to get back with your ex girlfriend for reasons other than love, you're barking up the wrong tree! Even if you do get back together, your relationship will have very little chance of long-term success! So why bother? If your relationship has reached it's natural conclusion, move on...
stay as friends if you like, but move on! It'll be best for all concerned! OK, if you've decided you really do want your ex girlfriend back...
for all the right reasons, of course, you'll need to develop a strategy...
you'll need to create a plan.
It's vital that you don't simply dive in feet first...
if you do that, you'll almost certainly end up wrecking any chances of reconciliation...
for ever! So, first thing...
Don't give the impression of being desperate or needy to your girlfriend.
Even if you are desperate, the last thing you want to do, is show that to your ex! You must control your emotions...
keep them to yourself.
If you find that too hard, talk to your friends or family so you can let everything out where your ex girlfriend can't see.
Whatever you do, don't beg or cry in front of your girlfriend, don't keep calling or visiting her.
Learn to control your feelings, stop feeling sorry for yourself and find positive ways to work things out with your ex.
If you appear too needy, or come across as too desperate, she'll almost certainly shy away from seeing you, because it'll be too painful for her.
She wants to see the man she fell in love with in the first place, not a desperate, crying man! Keep communication lines with your ex open.
She may have ended the relationship, but you just need to make her feel like communication lines are open and that you want to be civil.
You don't have to be the one initiating the conversation, but you should be willing to say hello and have a conversation occasionally with her, keeping in touch casually.
You'll need to judge what's acceptable and what's too much...
at this stage just keep talking, but keep it low-key and friendly..
..
nothing too serious.
Above all else, analyze what went wrong with your relationship.
There must have been a problem that led to the relationship breaking up, so find out what the problem was.
If you want to get back together with your ex, you'll need to find out what caused the arguments...
which of your girlfriend's needs weren't being met? Were there things you should have done? Things you shouldn't have done? Once you've answered these questions...
once you've decided what went wrong, it should be easy to decide what to do to start rectifying the situation.
But don't be too hasty...
don't jump in...
take your time...
create a plan...
gather some information...
read up on different strategies...