Do You Still Deeply Love Your Ex But Don"t Know How to Say It to Them? These Tips Will Help You
Besides getting buddy-buddy with the guy who runs the fortune cookie message factory or the 'tiny hearts with sayings' warehouse operator, there are ways to tell an ex that you still love them.
Before you lay it on the line, put on some Triumph and lay our message on your line.
Step 1: With Trepidation: Like we said, this isn't necessarily something that you need to rush in to.
Gage your ex's feelings and monitor their current situation.
If you guys are getting along good now, a profession of love might only freak them out and push them farther away.
Step 2: With Timing: Unlike Doc Brown and Marty McFly trying to time the lightning strike on the clock tower with a time porthole opening up, there are no exact moments for you to pull off your love ballad.
Only you will know when the time is right and if even you aren't positive try and get closer to certain to avoid the hurting.
Step 3: Should You?: Why do you feel the need to tell an ex that you still love them? Are they married with kids now? Did you just suddenly have this feeling or has it been festering for weeks, months, years? Before you take the big plunge, make sure you have an honest and positive answer for all these questions and more.
Step 4: Drop Hints First: You might want to slowly creep into this adventure instead of diving head first.
You don't need to necessarily come right out and say 'I Love You' as perhaps you should see if they want to have coffee first, or better yet, will respond to your Facebook messages.
Step 5: See If They'll Go First: If your ex agrees to reconnect, back off a bit and see if they'll spill the beans first.
This might seem like kind of a wimp move but if they start going on about how they're glad you can be friends and don't give any inkling that they want a relationship with you, it could save some awkwardness.
Step 6: You're Just Letting Them Know: You can tell your ex you love them in ways that aren't dramatic like the ending of a John Hughes movie.
Tell them that you just wanted them to know and you don't expect anything special back, it's just a huge burden off your chest and you thank them for listening.
Step 7: You Can't Expect It Back: The key to telling them that you don't expect anything back is to truly not expect any return on your investment.
The truth is that maybe the feeling has passed and if they had a tiny heart that read 'I'm just not into you' they'd give it to you.
Don't fret though because now you can go on with your life knowing that you gave it a shot.
Before you lay it on the line, put on some Triumph and lay our message on your line.
Step 1: With Trepidation: Like we said, this isn't necessarily something that you need to rush in to.
Gage your ex's feelings and monitor their current situation.
If you guys are getting along good now, a profession of love might only freak them out and push them farther away.
Step 2: With Timing: Unlike Doc Brown and Marty McFly trying to time the lightning strike on the clock tower with a time porthole opening up, there are no exact moments for you to pull off your love ballad.
Only you will know when the time is right and if even you aren't positive try and get closer to certain to avoid the hurting.
Step 3: Should You?: Why do you feel the need to tell an ex that you still love them? Are they married with kids now? Did you just suddenly have this feeling or has it been festering for weeks, months, years? Before you take the big plunge, make sure you have an honest and positive answer for all these questions and more.
Step 4: Drop Hints First: You might want to slowly creep into this adventure instead of diving head first.
You don't need to necessarily come right out and say 'I Love You' as perhaps you should see if they want to have coffee first, or better yet, will respond to your Facebook messages.
Step 5: See If They'll Go First: If your ex agrees to reconnect, back off a bit and see if they'll spill the beans first.
This might seem like kind of a wimp move but if they start going on about how they're glad you can be friends and don't give any inkling that they want a relationship with you, it could save some awkwardness.
Step 6: You're Just Letting Them Know: You can tell your ex you love them in ways that aren't dramatic like the ending of a John Hughes movie.
Tell them that you just wanted them to know and you don't expect anything special back, it's just a huge burden off your chest and you thank them for listening.
Step 7: You Can't Expect It Back: The key to telling them that you don't expect anything back is to truly not expect any return on your investment.
The truth is that maybe the feeling has passed and if they had a tiny heart that read 'I'm just not into you' they'd give it to you.
Don't fret though because now you can go on with your life knowing that you gave it a shot.
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