When we talk about desire, it is different from love.
Desire has everything to do with your physical attraction and the kind of person you are.
Maybe over time and the busy schedule you have, you have neglected yourself.
You found that towards the end of your relationship, the spark was lost.
The time has come to reignite that love light and get your ex to respond to you again.
  Start looking good If you have neglected yourself over the years or months the time has come to change the way you look.
Get yourself a new wardrobe and go to the stylist you admire and get her to fix you up good.
This will make you feel better and looking good too.
You need to cultivate the wow factor.
Your ex should see you and be completely bowled over! Physical attraction brought you two together; make sure that you get that back into your life.
Your ex will be thinking about you long after he/she bumped into you at the mall.
  Getting fit Have you become a slob? Make a little time for yourself and start visiting a gym regularly .
You will lose the inches you have added on to your waist.
You will tone up your body and look better and sexier too! Exercise also makes us more energetic.
Our overall appeal increases.
So get on that tread mill and keep walking!   Develop a new hobby Teach yourself a new skill or enroll in some hobby classes.
The idea is to make you a more attractive person.
A hobby or a new skill makes you more interesting.
Your ex will find something new in you and that will get him/her excited about being with you again.
In order for a relationship to be sustained the mind needs to be stimulated.
A new skill will make your ex see you in a new light.
He /she will crave for your company and soon you will get that welcome call!