Want to Know the Signs of a Broken Marriage?
Now would I say it may not be such a good idea to know the signs of a broken marriage? Simple.
When you look for something you find it, right? In fact you do not give up your search until you uncover what you seek.
Look for signs of a broken marriage and you will find them.
Here is another reason knowing the signs could prove detrimental to the health of your relationship.
Whatever you focus on grows bigger in your world.
Your energy focused on looking for problems will make any small sign into a large possibly unsolvable problem.
If you spend time and energy directing your thoughts and attention toward watching out for signs of something you do not want you will cause that very thing - what you do not want - to manifest in your life.
Personally I do not recommend looking to know the signs of a broken marriage, Instead focus on the signs of a happy successful marriage.
Oh! Novel idea.
Look for the good in the situation instead of resorting to the default behavior of looking for the negative side of things.
People say that those who look for the good in every situation do not live in reality.
What do you think? Why would anyone call negative thinking reality and positive thinking a dream? To keep your marriage healthy and happy notice the signs that make you feel better in the relationship.
Also notice what seems to make your spouse feel better.
Ask your spouse to verify that you accurately interpreted their behavior and interpretation of any event.
Do more of what feels good for you and what feels good for your spouse.
Keep you eyes and attention focused on all that is good and helpful for each of you.
Stay focused on what you want.
Warning: Do not neglect the above! Make sure to take this advice seriously if you want to repair a broken marriage.