Following the loss of her partner, Phil G is asked by a lady in Mulwaukee, USA, how to re-start a connection to him, in the Afterlife. Initially getting 'signs' that he's around, she now feels it's stopped. She also couldn't be with him at the end, and wants to know if that's okay:

I deal with many who distress at not being with a loved one in the final moments, but I feel they often want to spare us. In this case, I'm please she recognized the 'signs' of contact, but her concern about the signs of contact fading away are not a problem. As I share - I am sure she's just missing the signs, or expecting too much.

My own father passed away just over 2 years ago, and he so wanted to come home from hospital, but they wouldn't let him, and my brother and I live a long way from him, so there was no-one to care for him, but I felt very sad about it, because he said a few times to me, he just wanted to go home, even though he knew he probably wouldn't get better.

I just got an email today from someone who shared a beautiful story. She wrote a distressing account of how she was feeling, about 3 months ago, and she got hold of the audio "Contacting the Afterlife - a Spoken Beginners Guide" from the website (philg.net.au or afterlifephilg.com). She didn't think she could do what I do, but her email today expressed surprise and overwhelming joy to find it worked for her, and she now knows for certain that her husband is with her still.

I don't feel your partner has 'left' you. If they seem to appear not to be around, there could be several reasons. But in your case, I feel it's because you want too much, and miss the subtle signs. I mention it somewhere (my book, I think) that they get tired of trying to prove things all the time.

Think back to what happened when you did get a sign, a feeling he was near. Although it may have been an outward sign, something IN YOUR HEAD made you think: "It's Him". It's different. You just KNOW. You can't really explain it to anyone else, and everyone else may think you're silly, but in your heart, you know.

I want you to think about that feeling, to trust it, to embrace it, again. He misses you, hugs you, cradles you. Help you be strong for the others. Take a look at the material on my web site and use it to verify they're with you. Believe he's still with you. If you do, you'll start to get the signs again.

On YouTube you'll find my video "CoffeeTime" (there's a link on my website) that helps to create a situation where they can be around, and you can feel them around, and verify it. As you're not picking up on the signs right now, I'd like you to NOT ask for verification for the moment, but rather enjoy the feeling, the experience. It FEELS different when they're near. Get used to that feeling in your heart and mind, and that will help you build a connection, and verify it later.

So the trick here, for anyone who either wants to contact family and friends in the Afterlife, or feels they've had something already, but now feel the connection is lost, use the ideas on my website, take it step by step, don't try too hard to start with, relax, and gradually, you'll understand the connection, recognize it, and be able to verify it.

You can learn Phil's simple techinique to contact family and friends in the Afterlife, or you can ask Phil to help you