If you have been married for some time now, the chances that you and your husband have drifted apart are pretty good. It happens to the majority of marriages so don't feel like you are alone. With kids a big part of your life and work and such, a husband and wife can spend a lot of time apart when in fact they may need more time alone together. It can start to look like the two of you are just room mates.

To help bring the two of you closer try to schedule some time with only the two of you together, no kids or friends allowed. You need to be able to reconnect with each other and rekindle the love you once had when you met. Make it an occasional night out or even a weekend getaway. If you have kids they could stay at their Grandparents house for a night or two. Surely the grandparents would understand you are trying to rebuild your relationship.

You may also want to think about what you where like when you started dating your future husband. Maybe try to be the person he first fell in love with. People change over the years and sometimes they are not positive changes. If you think you need to loose weight or just get a makeover that would be a start. Remember men are different from women in that they tend to be more visual. Seeing a new you could spark some new interest and romance in your relationship.