My Ex Boyfriend Is Texting Me - What Does He Have On His Mind?
Texting has become the main form of communication between a large chunk of the population.
It's a really easy way to try and get into contact with someone.
Sometimes, it is too easy.
Sometimes you wind up getting text messages from someone you don't expect to get them from.
Like, maybe an ex boyfriend that you still think about.
If your ex boyfriend is sending you text messages, then you are probably wondering what is on his mind and why would he be sending them now? You also probably wonder if this means that he wants to get back together with you, especially if a part of you wants to get him back.
It might mean that he does want you back, but it could also mean something else.
Fact is, the sending of text messages is not really that clear of a sign of his intentions.
Why would he be sending you text messages? Here are a few possible reasons: 1.
He wants to talk because he misses you.
Texting is one of the more passive ways to get in touch with someone, so if he is a little shy about contacting you again, this may be why he would send you messages via text.
He may just miss you and want to talk to you and that may be the motive behind his actions.
2.
He is looking to get a late night hook up with you.
Timing can be a good indication of what is really on his mind.
If the texting happens late at night, then the possibility is there that all he really wants is to hook up with you.
The late night phone call for sex has become replaced by the late night text.
It still means the same thing, though.
3.
He is trying to open the door to communicate with you.
He may want to see if you are open to communicating with him and this is how he thinks will work the best for him.
That usually will mean that he is thinking about getting back together, though that is not always what it means.
Still, if he does not seem to be just looking for someone to talk to (lonely) and he does not seem to be after a late night hook up (sex), then he may be trying to find a way to get back together with you.
I think the real question that you need to ask yourself is what do YOU want this all to mean? Are you looking to get back with him or not? That's usually a more constructive way to look at things than to wonder what he is up to.
It's a really easy way to try and get into contact with someone.
Sometimes, it is too easy.
Sometimes you wind up getting text messages from someone you don't expect to get them from.
Like, maybe an ex boyfriend that you still think about.
If your ex boyfriend is sending you text messages, then you are probably wondering what is on his mind and why would he be sending them now? You also probably wonder if this means that he wants to get back together with you, especially if a part of you wants to get him back.
It might mean that he does want you back, but it could also mean something else.
Fact is, the sending of text messages is not really that clear of a sign of his intentions.
Why would he be sending you text messages? Here are a few possible reasons: 1.
He wants to talk because he misses you.
Texting is one of the more passive ways to get in touch with someone, so if he is a little shy about contacting you again, this may be why he would send you messages via text.
He may just miss you and want to talk to you and that may be the motive behind his actions.
2.
He is looking to get a late night hook up with you.
Timing can be a good indication of what is really on his mind.
If the texting happens late at night, then the possibility is there that all he really wants is to hook up with you.
The late night phone call for sex has become replaced by the late night text.
It still means the same thing, though.
3.
He is trying to open the door to communicate with you.
He may want to see if you are open to communicating with him and this is how he thinks will work the best for him.
That usually will mean that he is thinking about getting back together, though that is not always what it means.
Still, if he does not seem to be just looking for someone to talk to (lonely) and he does not seem to be after a late night hook up (sex), then he may be trying to find a way to get back together with you.
I think the real question that you need to ask yourself is what do YOU want this all to mean? Are you looking to get back with him or not? That's usually a more constructive way to look at things than to wonder what he is up to.
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