I am sympathetic to anyone stuck in a sexless marriage.
It really does suck, done--been there and done that.
I would never tolerate it again; she would have to hit the road, because it's unacceptable in a marriage relationship.
Now that don't mean run out and get divorced.
If you love your partner, you owe it to yourself and to her to at least try to make it work.
I tried my self, but I finally got wise and realized that I was not the problem, my mate was.
I also realized that no amount of trying to please her was going to work.
That was like trying to get the salmon to stop swimming up stream.
The fact is, when you are dating you have sex several times a week.
But when you get married, it can go to once a week to once a month to once a year.
And that just isn't going to work.
It's damaging to your ego, whether you're male or female.
You deserve better.
Your wife quits wearing make up, and starts wearing a dirty ball cap.
She quits dressing attractively for you.
Instead of sexy negligees, you get flannel pajamas, instead of skimpy panties, you get granny bloomers, and that sweet perfume has become the smell of old sweat.
And we don't want our wife smelling like a men's locker room.
And if that's not enough tight jeans turns into baggy sweat pants, and tight shorts are traded in for baggie Bermudas, and halter tops become sweat shirts or t shirts 3 sizes too big.
Dressed like this you can't even tell that she has a figure, or even if she's a woman.
That cleavage she once sported for you has turned into Clever, like in June.
But even June Cleaver stuck by her man, that's how she got Wally and the Beav.
It can be just as bad when the woman in the relationship is on the receiving end of the no sex rollercoaster, but that is another article.