Save Your Marriage From Divorce - What Every Woman Needs To Do
Most women don't believe that they can ever be wrong in the relationship department and love to blame the ending of a marriage on the man.
However, in 52% of the cases of divorce, the woman is to blame.
Women are extremely proud and therefore accepting that they are wrong isn't something they do easily but if you are a woman and your relationship is on tenterhooks, you need to stand back and evaluate the reasons for your problems and how big your role is in creating those problems.
If you can honestly say that you haven't done anything wrong, then ignore this advice but if you might have even contributed to 1% of the problems, then listen up! First and most important try to release control and stop criticizing and nagging your husband.
All the energy you pour into nagging and begging usually goes to waste because, believe it or not, it actually drives your husband further away from you.
Desperation definitely isn't a very becoming quality for a woman and it often repels men, including your husband.
Instead, listen to your husband and empathize if you can and respect his decisions.
Always be strong and project that strength outward so your husband knows that you still believe in your marriage.
If you are strong and if you believe in your relationship, it automatically increases the chances that you and your husband will be able to work things out.
No matter how grim the situation may be, you cannot give up hope because marriage is a sacred institution and yet, one that is often treated with very little respect.
One of the best ways to avoid conflict is to talk without it turning into a screaming contest between you and your husband.
Most women are emotional so arguments are usually accompanied by tears and screaming but the next time an argument arises, try to handle it a little differently.
Instead of becoming overly emotional, try to talk things out rationally and respect and listen to his point of view as well.
Marriage is an institution that has existed since man became civilized and taking it as lightly as we do today is both unhealthy and unnecessary.
If you, as a woman, can't see your own flaws, how can you expect your marriage to work? So, the first step is to accept - accept you may be wrong.
However, in 52% of the cases of divorce, the woman is to blame.
Women are extremely proud and therefore accepting that they are wrong isn't something they do easily but if you are a woman and your relationship is on tenterhooks, you need to stand back and evaluate the reasons for your problems and how big your role is in creating those problems.
If you can honestly say that you haven't done anything wrong, then ignore this advice but if you might have even contributed to 1% of the problems, then listen up! First and most important try to release control and stop criticizing and nagging your husband.
All the energy you pour into nagging and begging usually goes to waste because, believe it or not, it actually drives your husband further away from you.
Desperation definitely isn't a very becoming quality for a woman and it often repels men, including your husband.
Instead, listen to your husband and empathize if you can and respect his decisions.
Always be strong and project that strength outward so your husband knows that you still believe in your marriage.
If you are strong and if you believe in your relationship, it automatically increases the chances that you and your husband will be able to work things out.
No matter how grim the situation may be, you cannot give up hope because marriage is a sacred institution and yet, one that is often treated with very little respect.
One of the best ways to avoid conflict is to talk without it turning into a screaming contest between you and your husband.
Most women are emotional so arguments are usually accompanied by tears and screaming but the next time an argument arises, try to handle it a little differently.
Instead of becoming overly emotional, try to talk things out rationally and respect and listen to his point of view as well.
Marriage is an institution that has existed since man became civilized and taking it as lightly as we do today is both unhealthy and unnecessary.
If you, as a woman, can't see your own flaws, how can you expect your marriage to work? So, the first step is to accept - accept you may be wrong.
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