Mend a Broken Heart
It hurts so badly to imagine life without the one you love and so many crazy emotions come into play.
However the 3 most basic steps to follow will save your reputation and possibly create a starting over point for the relationship.
First things first, mend a broken heart and ease the pain now! The Number ONE thing 1) Your partner did not just break things off with you for NO reason.
a.
You may have been caught totally off guard and yet you must respect their feelings and better yet the need to be without you.
b.
You will never mend your broken heart if you don't first take a good hard look at what went wrong.
The Number TWO thing 2) We ALL start out going way above and beyond to impress a love interest a.
Once we have a relationship with them we drop the ball and show our true colors b.
This does not create a lasting relationship, you must present yourself truly in the start.
3) Once the damage has been done try to restore yourself and possibly the relationship a.
Simply and honestly let the person know you respect their feelings and needs and that you were a bit over the top at the start of the relationship and that you got more than you bargained for and now you would like to give it an honest shot.
b.
You realize that change is in order and you would at least like the chance to put forth the real you and see where it goes.
Finally I answer the question more fully, Mend A Broken Heart? * You do so by being true to who you really are with love and respect.
* Part of the pain from the break up is largely in part to the rejection to you putting your best act forward only to face the music.
Imagine all that work and then rejected! * You can only win at love if your true to it.
Love is not built on lies.
It is only then you will find a good match.
* This will protect you from feeling so broken the lie in part creates guilt which makes it feel worse.
The truth is the relationship was not good enough because fraud never is.
People always end up feeling taken and that does not make for a lasting relationship.
The Secret is this, Great love happens when true bonds and connections are made and this only comes with two people clicking in the reality of their true sameness.
"The measure of true soul mates is the likeness of their desires.
" Katie McMurray Your true self is the best and only option.
It feels magical to be loved for who you truly are.
SO many people start a relationship off by being everything they hear the other person say they are looking for when all the while they really are not.
The truth is you can only build a lasting and loving relationship if you put forth the real and honest you.
Odds are very high that you will land the person your looking for by just being the real you.
But it is hard to go back on a lie.
If you someone who has promised the moon and only delivered on the, well did not deliver on the moon, then you need some guidance and help.
You should realize that the only way you can find the real answer to the question, How DO I Mend A Broken Heart? is to get real with yourself and those you care about.
However the 3 most basic steps to follow will save your reputation and possibly create a starting over point for the relationship.
First things first, mend a broken heart and ease the pain now! The Number ONE thing 1) Your partner did not just break things off with you for NO reason.
a.
You may have been caught totally off guard and yet you must respect their feelings and better yet the need to be without you.
b.
You will never mend your broken heart if you don't first take a good hard look at what went wrong.
The Number TWO thing 2) We ALL start out going way above and beyond to impress a love interest a.
Once we have a relationship with them we drop the ball and show our true colors b.
This does not create a lasting relationship, you must present yourself truly in the start.
3) Once the damage has been done try to restore yourself and possibly the relationship a.
Simply and honestly let the person know you respect their feelings and needs and that you were a bit over the top at the start of the relationship and that you got more than you bargained for and now you would like to give it an honest shot.
b.
You realize that change is in order and you would at least like the chance to put forth the real you and see where it goes.
Finally I answer the question more fully, Mend A Broken Heart? * You do so by being true to who you really are with love and respect.
* Part of the pain from the break up is largely in part to the rejection to you putting your best act forward only to face the music.
Imagine all that work and then rejected! * You can only win at love if your true to it.
Love is not built on lies.
It is only then you will find a good match.
* This will protect you from feeling so broken the lie in part creates guilt which makes it feel worse.
The truth is the relationship was not good enough because fraud never is.
People always end up feeling taken and that does not make for a lasting relationship.
The Secret is this, Great love happens when true bonds and connections are made and this only comes with two people clicking in the reality of their true sameness.
"The measure of true soul mates is the likeness of their desires.
" Katie McMurray Your true self is the best and only option.
It feels magical to be loved for who you truly are.
SO many people start a relationship off by being everything they hear the other person say they are looking for when all the while they really are not.
The truth is you can only build a lasting and loving relationship if you put forth the real and honest you.
Odds are very high that you will land the person your looking for by just being the real you.
But it is hard to go back on a lie.
If you someone who has promised the moon and only delivered on the, well did not deliver on the moon, then you need some guidance and help.
You should realize that the only way you can find the real answer to the question, How DO I Mend A Broken Heart? is to get real with yourself and those you care about.
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