We've all read the stories about Women from Venus, Men from Mars and pretty much accept that the two genders are wired differently.
But does this also translate to the most primordial and instinctive emotions of desire, sexual stimulation and gratification? Watch the eyes of the men gathered in a restaurant or bar when an attractive woman saunters in.
Their eyes reflect the emotions that have instinctively sprung to life.
They sweep the woman, from head to toe, usually more than once.
They have mentally undressed her.
Walk over to the women gathered to share time together and watch their reaction to a scantily clad male who walks in.
Their eyes remain fixed; they are mentally cleaning him up and dressing him in an expensive sexy suit and nice costly shoes.
They may carry their fantasy all the way to the kind of car he will sweep them off their feet into...
the proverbial chariot ride! Why do men get sexually stimulated by baring the women while women's sexual desires are amped up with the costuming? It's about the instinctive expectation behind the desire.
At their most basic level, men see women as a partner who satisfies their sexual needs while he provides for her.
Women instinctively, long before equal rights came about, see men as the provider and protector.
She nurtures and cares for him, he provides and protects her.
The strongest and most formidable knight is not naked.
He is armored or dressed to say, "I'm prepared to battle and will win.
" It's basic instinct! We may have come a long, long way from the beginnings of man and woman; however the instincts have survived and probably always will.
It's not a thinking thing.
It is the place we retreat to when our emotions, not our brain is in charge.
You may call it something else or deny it happens, but this is a primitive instinct.
It is the same one that says women will birth the babies and care for the family while men find the food and a cave or shelter to protect them.
It's a part of that wiring difference.
Men complain loudly when their women force them into suits and ties for a special night out; but they know what this leads to when the evening ends...
sexual gratification that could easily become 'hot sex' in their own bedroom at home.
And so, they put on the required 'monkey suit' and play the role.
Meanwhile, their women are in their closets searching for the most revealing and flattering outfit that will accentuate their best attributes and that will compliment their lacy, scant sexy lingerie.
While their men are tying the proverbial Windsor knot in their tie, their women are searching for their highest heels that show off their calf muscles and hottest outfit to heat up their man.
It's the mating dance! It's all a sexual game with role playing and perfect costuming! Men do it to get their woman's clothes off; women do it to get the knight in their lives ready to do battle publicly, thereby heating up their own libido! When this dance is successful, both enjoy the final thrill they were seeking; she to know that her perfect planning has turned her knight into a king that commands her emotions, and he to know that his efforts at wearing the armor out publicly caused her to tear off her clothes and be what he wanted initially; naked! It's a win-win when they both revel in the pleasure of sexual satisfaction.