Are you wondering if you will ever be able to make your man fall in love with you? Are you becoming frustrated because it seems as though he is content to maintain your relationship just as it is? Why doesn't he want to keep moving forward? Is it wrong to hope that you can keep progressing towards commitment? You might need a little help in understanding how men think and how they approach falling in love.
They just don't do it like women do.
Men don't see falling in love as this wonderful, earth-shattering experience that just seems to sweep them off their feet.
No, that would be how women do it.
Men see it as a process which moves in succession from one point to another.
It cannot be rushed, it cannot move out of sequence, and above all, enough time has to be invested.
The time concept is the place where you can begin your work to speed things up and finally make your man fall in love.
Men are very cautious to ensure that they are not moving too fast into a deep commitment.
They truly believe that they cannot possibly promise their love and devotion unless they have known a woman long enough to justify this.
Your mission is to make your guy believe that he has known you longer than he actually has.
The trick is simple; multiply his memories.
Your guy's perception of time spent with you relies on his recollections of places you have been together and experiences you have shared.
Speed up his perception by planning mini-dates.
Plan to go to four or five places when you go out rather than just one.
For example, go for a walk through the mall, stop to have coffee or a soda, and then grab dinner and a movie.
That is four different locations that he can place you in, and that is all in just one night.
Keep doing this and you can create the impression that you have been together much longer than you have.
Once he feels confident that enough time has been invested, his hesitation will be diminished and you will be one step closer to making him fall in love.