Trying to save your relationship is one of the most difficult things to do by yourself.
The stress can be unbearable because you worry that you'll say the wrong thing or make a fatally wrong move that costs you the love of your life forever.
Unfortunately, almost everything that feels like the right thing to do at the moment is dead wrong.
Most times we should follow the 'counterintuitive path', or do the exact opposite.
When you feel like calling them on the phone is when you should stay quiet instead.
When you feel like pouring your heart out to them is when you should put a lid on it.
As a warning, the magic keys I'm about to share with you are going to sound strange.
These tips will challenge you and seem wrong, but trust me.
Studies with clients reveal time and time again these are proven and 100% effective in even what seems the most dire and "on the rocks" situations.
Magic Makeup Key #1 Absolute Acceptance The first key concept you need to understand is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you.
This can be very difficult to do because your emotions are so strong and the chances are good that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you're able to do so.
Stop fighting the facts and begin to heal.
It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together.
Focus on accepting the situation and explore it in your mind.
The main reason is because you need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again and regain control of your emotions.
The chances are that they are mad or upset with you at the moment, especially if you've been nagging them about getting back together or acting out emotionally.
Magic Makeup Key #2 Elusive Escape The second key concept is simple.
You need to use is to cut off all communication.
Disappear.
Vanish.
I know that you're probably about ready to close your browser right now! Hold on, because this concept really does work because it is rooted in psychology.
It also helps you to accept the breakup in your own mind and is the very action that shows your ex you are serious.
By not communicating and being needy you are allowing your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for breaking up.
You are demonstrating that you are a complete person and not a vampire that is trying to latch on to them and suck their energy.
This space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly about the message you want to communicate.
It also sets you up for the next surefire strategy, the core key.
Magic Makeup Key #3 Carefully Constructed Contact The third key is to engineer an event where you two can reconnect in a nonthreatening and seemingly almost casual way.
But be extra careful! Many people rush into this too soon and without proper planning.
Take the time to discover  all the little steps in between following these keys that people leave out!   The magical makeup keys work together sequentially and you cannot afford to use them out of order.
Together they work together to unlock the love still trapped inside your relationship.