People have a tendency to mope on the hopelessness of things especially in a failed relationship, but before you succumb to this, think of the reason why you both got to the bottom of the relationship ladder.
To pull your ex back, you need to start climbing as well.
The problems does not lie on your partner alone, it always takes two to Tango.
If you come to terms with that then the peak of the ladder are only a few steps away.
Here are some tips that can help you survive: 1.
Reminisce - before you got to an emotional fight that tears both your hearts down, everything started with "LOVE.
" Remember the reason why you fell in love in the first place.
Try to list down the positive things that you liked about your partner and remind them about it.
Instead of mocking their mistakes, this method will get them thinking of the same thing.
2.
Talk - start by talking about trivial stuff; do not go into a whole chapter of analyzing each stage of your relationship.
Just talk and remember how easy it is to share things with your partner without going into an argument.
Do not touch the sensitive topic, or something that will lead to it.
3.
Laugh - laughter is the best medicine they say; this is also applicable on a failed relationship.
You need to develop your rapport together again and laughing on mundane topics helps recover this bond.
Your hearts become light and your eyes can see things more clearly.
Once the fog clears, you both go back to the basic of just being human, who are capable of sharing yourself.
4.
Feel - this maybe a little difficult as it involves mutual consent, it is an exercise of feeling without touching each other.
If your ex-partner is up to it, go to a private sanctuary not necessary a close door, it could be a garden.
Face each other and close your eyes.
Clear your head off any thoughts and just feel each other's presence and let the beating of your heart speak.