If you and your spouse have agreed to divorce and you've changed your mind and want to save your marriage, then good for you! It takes a lot of courage to even think about it, right? And remember it's never too late to turn things around.
The first step is to talk through your feelings with your spouse.
Show them how you have changed your mind and really want to save your marriage, no matter what it takes.
At this stage you must take responsibility for your part in the problems of the marriage.
You might feel there are things you're ready to apologise for, now that you're in the mind set of saving your marriage.
Remember that most people are doing the best they can in life and sometimes get it wrong.
It's okay for both of you to have said and done stuff you're ashamed of.
But what you mustn't do is let those things and your pride stop you overcoming them, so you can both be happy in your marriage.
Everyone makes mistakes don't let your mistakes live on by paying for them with a dreaded and painful divorce.
Take responsibility and your spouse will see the best side of you instead of the negative stuff you've both been consumed with seeing.
The next step is realising that there are things that need to change in your relationship and more specifically in how you and your spouse relate to each other.
You can't go back to the way things were, you have to move forward and recognize what you've learnt so that you can make things work.
Take what's worked before, what's great about the two of you and rebuild your marriage.
The final step for this article is realising that in order for your relationship to change, then you must change.
Show your spouse how you want to be better in terms of relating to them and talk to them about how you plan on doing this.
For example, how will they know how much you love them? What will you do to solve problems in the future? How will you stay committed to working on and saving your marriage?