How can I rebuild my marriage? First understand the symptoms you are feeling.
Increases in arguments, feelings of disconnection, lack of intimacy, are symptoms of a marriage in distress.
Most couples experience difficulties in their relationship.
Some problems are situational and are able to be more readily resolved.
Other problems are more complicated and take significant effort to resolve.
Some are unable or unwilling to work out the problems.
Some are willing to try many things to make it work.
There is a tremendous amount of literature focusing on the topic of "How can I rebuild my marriage".
A key to rebuilding a marriage is early identification of problems.
The earlier a problem is identified, the easier it is to manage and resolve.
This is due to the fact that consequences associated with the problem, physical, emotional, financial, etc are not compounded over time.
The amount of arguments are lessened and therefore a sense of well being or happiness is maintained at a higher frequency.
It is important to be able to address and resolve problems as they occur.
If you are like most people, problems are more long standing.
They were not addressed right away and have caused more issues in the marriage.
It is still not too late.
Remember, you are now thinking about how I can rebuild my marriage.
Obviously, the marriage is still important to you, thus it is not too late.
Start by identifying the top 2 or 3 main issues in the marriage.
Identify specific plans on how they can be resolved.
For example, if it is financial one plan may be to get an additional part time job.
Discuss the problems and the plans with your spouse.
Be open to alternative suggestions.
Keep trying different plans until issues are resolved.
If the problems are too significant or unable to be resolved by you and your spouse, seek professional help.
Therapists and ministers are great resources to assist in determining plans and goals to help you you're your question of "How I can rebuild my marriage.